What to write in a card for a child with cancer

When a parent hears the words “your child has cancer,” the shock is unimaginable.

If you have heard a friend or family member tell you “My child has cancer” you know the helpless feeling of not knowing what to do. As humans, we immediately want to help.

While we cannot cure cancer, or magically take all the pain away, we can do things to help in the little moments for families facing childhood cancer. One of those things we have done as an organization is implement Letters of Encouragement. These are bright, colorful, cheery cards sent to families alongside their financial support from Pinky Swear Foundation.

So, what do you even write on a card for a child facing cancer? You want to share your heartfelt love and encouragement while also recognizing how hard life must feel for these families. Based on our 20 years of experience in the pediatric cancer space, we put together a list of dos and don’ts when it comes to writing notes to kids with cancer and their families.

Phrases to consider writing in a card for a child with cancer:

YOU ARE:

- Brave

- Strong

- Amazing/Awesome

- A Hero

- Super

- Wonderful

- A Star

- An Inspiration

Pictures to consider including in the card:

• Sunshine, stars, and rainbows
• Flowers and balloons
• Animals
• Contemporary drawing – patterns/colors
• Smiling faces
• Hearts
• Cars
• Cartoon characters

Other phrases to consider:

• I am sorry for the struggle you are facing.
• We think of you often.
• I truly admire your strength and courage.
• I wish good things for you and your family.
• I am sorry you are going through this.
• I wish I could take this pain away for you.
• Thinking of you.
• Take care.
• You rock.
• I care about you!
• You are the BEST.
• You are a ray of sunshine.

Learn more about letter writing for kids with cancer here. If you are feeling inspired, you can send your Letters of Encouragement to the Pinky Swear Foundation headquarters to be sent off to kids facing childhood cancer.

Pinky Swear Foundation

5555 W. 78th St., Suite E, Edina, MN 55439